7 habits to adopt as from age 30.
The older you get, the harder it is to change your habits.
But in your
30s, there's still time to adopt new, positive behaviors.
1. Start laughing at yourself.
"Laugh
at yourself, laugh at the absurdity of life, laugh at the goodness and the
badness of every situation," writes Quora user Cyndi Perlman Fink.
Being able to find humor in your own struggles may be
important for your overall health and happiness. Research suggests that people who are able to laugh at
themselves are generally more cheerful.
2. Start appreciating your family and friends.
In your 20s,
you may be so busy getting an education and launching your career that family
and friends fall by the wayside. Your 30s are a good time to get back in touch
and remember how much you love spending time with them.
As for
family, "if you can find a way to make a connection with them, you may
find some things in common with them, more than you expect,"says Robert
Walker.
And as for
friends, Nan Waldman says: "Nurture them. Laugh with them. Be silly
too. Contribute to their survival and enjoyment of life. Take the time every
week to be in touch."
3. Start keeping a journal.
"Journal
your life! Your written records will entertain and endear in
your future,"writes Mark Crawley.
You don't
necessarily have to keep a secret notebook under your bed — a digital photo
album with captions works just as well.
Several
Quora users noted the importance of maintaining a healthy weight in your 30s.
"Keep your weight at a normal level that's good for your body,"writes Fink.
To do that,
it's important to stay active and eat right. A growing body of
research suggests that if you're looking to lose weight, your diet makes more
of a difference than your exercise habits.
5. Start saving money.
One of the
most important financial habits to start practicing in your 30s is spending
less than you earn. "Make it a habit to live below your means,"writes
David Leon. "I know way too many people who live hand to mouth at 50 due
to excessive spending at 30."
6. Start chasing a big goal.
Up till now,
you may have only dreamed about starting a family, buying a house, or earning
an advanced degree. Now is the time to go for it.
"It's
easy to put things off," says Bill Karwin. "But it's really true that
time starts accelerating as you enter your 30s, and it keeps accelerating. The
time that you'll get around to those dreams should be now."
7. Start learning from your mistakes.
You probably
made plenty of mistakes in your 20s. That's OK — as long as you grow from your
experiences. That requires accepting responsibility for what went wrong and
understanding why it went wrong.
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